This was the life I prayed for. A wonderful, loving husband. A beautiful, healthy baby boy. So, why wasn’t I happy?

I imagined my life as a stay-at-home mom would be a little like June Clever mixed with Mary Poppins. I would meet life’s challenges with a smile and a song…while wearing pearls. In reality, I was a hot mess.

I did a lot of things wrong back in the early days of first time motherhood (don’t worry, I still do). If I could go back in time, I would lovingly and gently tell myself to CHILL OUT! But you, dear Mama, you will bask in the joy of motherhood! You will avoid these pitfalls.

Set realistic expectations for yourself, your  newborn and your household. Sis, it’s okay if your life doesn’t look like a beautifully filtered Instagram post.

You can’t do it all. You are not superwoman. That lady isn’t even real! Say no, set boundaries and ask for help.

Take care of yourself! Let me say this again.

Take care of yourself! Your body created, developed and birthed a whole life. Give it rest, proper nutrients and time to heal.

Drop kick doubt and worry! Seriously, karate chop those bad boys in the throat. You will make mistakes, there will be tears (yours, not the baby’s), and problems will arise.

But don’t you dare doubt your ability as a mother! God gave this child to YOU! He will give you wisdom and provide for your family’s needs- spiritually, physically and emotionally.

Moms of grown children say, “The days are long, but the years are short.” They are right! These days I’m feeling a little bit more like Mary Poppins. Still no pearls. But, I’ve learned to enjoy and cherish these moments. And yes, to meet life’s challenges with a smile and a song! Welcome to motherhood!

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